Before I got married, one big man that I was very close to told me "Udo, don't worry. Just let me know when you see the woman you want to marry. I will handle the rest." Fast forward to when I wanted to marry, I went to give him an official invitation. I even went with two cartons of expensive wine. Two days to my wedding, I got an alert of 20k from this man. LESSON 📌 Marry when you are ready o. No go dey depend on anyone. 📌 All the people telling you go and marry upandan will leave you when you are ready to. 📌 If you'd listen to me, no do WHITE WEDDING. It's a waste of resources. It has no spiritual significance. Anyways, I still did it😅 📌 Never ever ever ever ever ever borrow to do wedding.... NEVER! Some of things I wished I did instead of elaborate wedding. - Use the money and travel to somewhere and enjoy life with my wife. - Invest in a business and be sure of a good return in one year. - I would rather do an elaborate traditional wedding than white wedding. - I will never advise anyone to use 100% of their savings to do wedding (trad&white). I did it and that was foolishness.